A first experience designed with care and understanding
Escorts who offer the Virgin Experience are carefully selected for their social skills and ability to create a comfortable and pressure-free environment. The process usually begins with casual conversation over drinks or dinner to ease any nerves and establish a genuine connection.
When intimacy naturally unfolds, the escort leads the experience with tenderness, ensuring everything happens at a pace that feels right. There’s no rush, only mutual respect, patience, and a focus on making the moment as pleasurable as possible. Step by step, your escort will guide you through your first erotic experience and teach you how to become a considerate and skilled lover. The Virgin Experience is much more than just losing your virginity. It’s about connection and intimacy, inside and outside the bedroom.
To prepare for your virgin experience, we recommend that you read our etiquette page. Do you wish to read a little bit more about conversation skills with your high class escort? Then check out this page. You do not need to take care of condoms, massage oil, etc, will provide these. We do advice you to bring your favorite items for your personal care, so that you can freshen up if necessary.
The day of your Virgin Experience is an exciting day. It is not at all strange if you’re feeling a little nervous. Your escort will keep this in mind. Each booking is unique and tailored but will usually include building social skills, intimate kissing, feeling comfortable naked, discovering the body through touch and massage and learning erotic techniques from foreplay to enjoyable intercourse. We welcome you to express your insecurities, curiosities and desires. We would also like to emphasize that there will be no expectation or desire for you to “perform” like in the average erotic movie. Making love is about mutual enjoyment, intimacy and eroticism. Your ability to reach climax or prolonged maintenance of an erection are no must for a nice erotic time together. Like many things in life, having sex is a skill that is built over time and through experience. See the Virgin Experience as a first step towards a long journey of discovery. That journey will start with the basics and therefore extra services such as anal sex and BDSM preferences are not possible with your Virgin Experience but can possibly be discovered during follow up bookings.
If you have any concerns or special requests, discussing them in advance will help ensure your experience is exactly what you envision. Your comfort and confidence are always the priority.
Other frequently asked questions from clients about how the Virgin Experience works
Clients want to know what to expect and how the Virgin Experience differs from a regular booking. Below are the most common questions, answered honestly.
What exactly is the Virgin Experience? The Virgin Experience is a specialised service by Society Service, established in 2007, designed for clients aged 21 and over with little or no sexual experience. The escorts are carefully selected and specially trained to guide a relaxed, pressure-free and educational first intimate experience. It is about much more than the technical loss of your virginity: connection, intimacy and self-confidence come first.
Who is the Virgin Experience intended for? For anyone aged 21 or over with little or no sexual experience who would like to change that. There is no maximum age and no requirements regarding appearance or background. Clients range from their early twenties to well into their seventies. As long as you are well-groomed and treat the escort with respect, you are welcome.
What happens during a Virgin Experience booking? Every booking begins with an informal conversation over drinks or dinner, allowing the tension to ease and a genuine connection to form. From there, the escort guides you step by step towards intimacy, at a pace that feels right for both of you. A booking typically includes developing social skills, kissing, sharing a bath, exploring each other's bodies through touch and massage, and learning erotic techniques from foreplay to penetrative sex.
What is the difference from a regular escort booking? With a regular booking, the client is expected to already have some social and erotic skills. With the Virgin Experience, the escort explicitly takes into account nervousness, shyness or insecurity. She takes initiative, explains things and guides you step by step. This requires a very different approach and mindset, which is why the escorts for this service are specially selected and trained.
Do I have to technically still be a virgin to book? No. The Virgin Experience is intended for anyone with little or no sexual experience, regardless of whether you are technically still a virgin. A few previous experiences do not make you a skilled lover. There is always a great deal to learn, and everyone is welcome.
What is the minimum duration of a Virgin Experience booking? A relaxed atmosphere is essential, especially for a first experience. For this reason, a minimum booking duration of 3 hours applies. This allows enough time to get to know each other before moving towards more intimate moments. A longer booking, such as a Dinner Date or Overnight, offers even more space and ease, and is often recommended.
Should I mention if I have autism or another diagnosis? Yes, absolutely. Some challenges can be worked around and others cannot. We would rather be honest upfront than have a difficult situation arise during the booking. Let us know and we will discuss together whether and how we can make the experience work well for you, and which escort is the best fit.
Are anal sex, BDSM or other special services possible? No, not during the Virgin Experience. The focus is on the basics: flirting, kissing, foreplay, sensual massage and penetrative sex. Special services can potentially be explored in follow-up bookings, once you have built more experience and confidence.
Is it guaranteed that I will lose my virginity or reach orgasm? No. Given the intimate and personal nature of this booking, no such guarantees are offered. What we do guarantee is that the escort will do her very best to create an enjoyable experience for both of you. There is no pressure to perform: the booking does not end when you reach orgasm, nor is it a failure if you do not. Nerves are completely normal and your escort will take them into account.
What should I bring and what should I wear? You do not need to bring condoms or massage oil, we take care of that. You are welcome to bring your own grooming products in case you want to freshen up. Dress as you would for a special date: smart casual, well-groomed from head to toe. Personal hygiene is essential, including the genital area. Full shaving is not required, but some grooming is expected.
