How to get the best experience at a high end escortservice
If by some chance you have never booked an exclusive escort or gigolo before, or have had any uncertainties or disappointments in the past, or wish to know how to get the best service and response from your companion, (or people in general), it is very important for you to read on. It’s a lot of text but very worth while.
These High Class Escort Etiquette are intended to provide you with as much information as possible on how to prepare for your booking with a high class escort from Society Service. Some things may come naturally to you, but not to others. And vice-versa. We do not expect perfection from both our escorts and our clients, after all, making mistakes is human. What we do expect, however, is that you are committed and do your best to make it as enjoyable a time as possible for both of you. You will see that this improves the experience for both. As long as you stay motivated and your skills increase as you gain experience, your experiences with our high class escorts will only get better for both!
Let's start at the beginning...
Hiring a ‘sex professional’, whatever the level, is the same as hiring any other professional, like a doctor, lawyer or mechanic. You pay them money for a service. It doesn’t matter what the service is: if you’re nice to the professional, you generally get a better result than if you aren’t. Treat adult entertainers the same way you treat other professionals. And like other professionals, these ladies and gentlemen will treat you as a valued client, and may even become ‘friends’ on a business level. They look forward to seeing you again, the same way any other professional likes to see their good clients again.
Escorts make a living at their jobs just like people who have other jobs. So yes, they are partly doing it for the money. But that’s just their occupation, which most people choose because they enjoy it. When you hire a mechanic to fix your car, the mechanic is doing it for the money too, but he no doubt enjoys his work. It’s the same thing. Your mechanic may be your friend, and he may enjoy working on your car because you’re a good client. The same kind of relationship can be established with your escort. If you become a repeat client, you will get to know each other and know what you like to do together and you will enjoy it more.
At Society Service we have brought this standard up to a higher level, and we’re very strict about not hiring escorts with a wrong attitude. There is therefore no question of routine work or doing something just because it is paid for. In general, your escort will enjoy this work, otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. However, there are a number of things you can do -or leave- to ensure that your escort has a good time with you. The time and effort you put into creating a special and mutually enjoyable experience always pays off. What you give is what you get. So take this Escort Etiquette to heart and you will have an unforgettable experience that will exceed all your expectations.
Why spend time with a high class escort?
Do you wonder why you should book with a high class escortservice instead of a regular escortservice? That’s like asking why eat at a fine restaurant when you can throw something in the microwave?! The answer will be superbly and continually self-evident throughout the entire sensational experience.
All jokes aside. People book high class escorts (male or female) for very different reasons. Because they enjoy the companionship and intimacy, the passion and eroticism, want to live out a special fantasy, learn how to become a better lover, to spice up their relationship, and more. Whatever your reason is, these escort etiquette will help you get the most out of your personal escort experience.
Contacting the high class escortservice
Before contacting an escortservice, you need to check three things:
- Do the rates of the escortservice fit within your budget?
- Is the type of escort that’s being offered the type you are looking for?
- Is the escortservice reliable?
Only when you can answer these questions with “Yes” and you are genuinely interested in booking an escort, should you proceed with contacting the escortservice.
When contacting the escortservice, introduce yourself, explain what you are interested in and ask how to proceed. Be respectful and friendly towards management, and bear in mind that this is a business transaction. Every escortservice has its own procedures, from elaborate online booking options to anonymous telephone bookings. The terms and conditions under which the escortservice wishes to offer its services, are often explained on their website. If they sound unreasonable to you, simply contact an alternative escortservice.
The same applies to rates of the escortservice. Never haggle over charges… if the rates are too high, then there is nothing wrong with saying that the rate is beyond what you had in mind, thank management for their time and then move on. Politeness costs nothing. Trying to negotiate fees will often result in less polite treatment.
When you’ve found an escortservice that matches your preferences, simply follow procedures to proceed with your booking. Feeling nervous about calling the escortservice? No worries, nowadays most escortservices will offer online booking options which give you all the time you need to express your wishes.
When contacting Society Service, can expect a non-judgmental, honest and professional approach and we expect the same in return. Please save the dirty talk for your actual booking. Stories concerning your incredible sexual prowess and elephantine manhood are unlikely to arouse anyone, as we have heard them all before.
Please be as honest and forthright as possible with us. We share a mutual interest to match you with an escort who will be just perfect for you. Both we and our high class escorts find it pleasant and useful to be able to form an impression of you. The more you share about yourself in advance, the better we can assess who is the best match for you and the bigger our chances to seamlessly fulfill and exceed your expectations.
Be aware the safety and comfort of our escorts is our priority. If we are not comfortable talking with you, we will be unlikely to introduce you to one of our escorts. We can only assume that if you try to negotiate your options with us and push limits, you will treat the escort no different and that's a dealbreaker.
Before the booking
Great! You have an upcoming booking with your dream escort. Then here’s how you prepare for your booking:
Cleanliness: The chances of your escort being a willing participant in erotic games with you is directly proportional to your level of personal hygiene. A clean and fresh body invites for intimacy, unpleasant odors prevent this. Therefore, ensure excellent personal hygiene. Take a shower, paying particular attention to your private parts and brush your teeth. Also take care of well-groomed hands, feet and nails. Of course, your favorite fragrance should not be missing, which welcomes your escort subtly as she leans in for a kiss.
Have a shave: Our escorts prefer as little body hair as possible; so shave or trim this prior to your booking. Prevent stubbles; these can rub and irritate the escort's sensitive skin. Not many people class a "sanding-down" by a five o'clock shadow as inviting foreplay.
Put on clean underwear: Even if you’re not risking being knocked down by a bus, your chances of re-living scenes from Nine and a Half Weeks will be severely reduced if the escort discovers that your underpants look like the unwashed dishes in the sink.
Get dressed: Your booking always starts with a social element, where you and the escort get to know each other better outside the bedroom. Only then does it build up to a more erotic atmosphere where your escort is only too happy to undress you slowly and teasingly. Until that time; dress to impress but in a way you feel comfortable with. A tailored suit is great, but if you feel more comfortable in jeans, that's fine too. The majority of clients dress smart casual. You only get one chance to make a first impression, so make sure it counts.
Clean up: Make sure that the location where you receive the escort, whether this is at your home or in a hotel, is neat and tidy. A fresh and made-up bed, clean towels, toilet without brake marks, etc. are the very least. But a sultry music in the background, pleasant temperature, romantic candlelight, and the evening can’t go wrong!
Money: Unless otherwise agreed, have the payment ready in cash and counted. You have already found out how much it is going to cost, so to spare both of you any embarrassment, make sure the amount is correct and place it in an open envelope or separate from the rest of your money. Payment can be fulfilled within the first 5 to 10 minutes of the booking by discreetly handing it to the escort or pointing it out to her. No need to count it out to her like a cashier would. And don’t try a bit of last minute bartering… the prices are set.
Alcohol: A Gin and Tonic to help with your nerves, or a brandy to arouse you is OK. Ten bottles of beer is not a good idea. Alcohol is a depressant rather than a stimulant and although you may think that it improves your staying power or loosens you up in the bedroom, it is more likely to prevent you from reaching orgasm at all… and beer breath is a turn-off. By the way; the same applies to drugs. Aside from our strict “no-drugs-policy”, using drugs before or during your booking will not benefit you or the escort.
Presents: Although presents are never expected or required, everybody loves them. Each escort has some favorites listed in the profile. Your escort will feel very special knowing that you thought of him or her before your time together.
Together at last with the high class escort
Be courteous: Being courteous has never gone out of fashion. Take her coat, offer your escort a drink, pay a compliment, engage in a little chit-chat, take an interest in the escort. Don’t grope the escort the moment that she walks through the door, no matter how amazing the escort looks. You may be paying for her time, but a little respect will pay dividends later. You can keep the conversation light and casual or discuss your full life history and innermost secrets; that is as you and the escort please. When you are both in the mood, the atmosphere will naturally become more intimate.
Under no circumstances ask: What's your real name? What does your partner think about your work? How long have you been doing this? Do your parents know about your job? How much money do you make? Why don’t you marry a rich man and forget about this work? How many clients do you see in one night? These are very personal and patronizing questions, so don’t ask them, unless you are looking for a very cool performance or equally embarrassing questions in return, like: What does your partner think of this? How long have YOU been doing this? Do your children know that you go out with escorts? Does your boss know you’re here? Have you ever thought about going on a diet?
Discretion: In addition to our clients, the escorts also need discretion. For that reason, we would like to ask you to limit physical contact outside the privacy of your hotel room or home, as would be physical contact between friends or business associates. This is especially important when you are in a city where the escort lives or spends a lot of time. There is a chance that you will meet acquaintances during your booking. If this is someone you know, the escort will keep aloof from the conversation and let you take the lead. The escort will go along with what you say, for example when you introduce the escort as a colleague. However, the escort will excuse herself to the toilet as soon as possible. A similar course of action is also expected of you should this situation arise.
Food and drinks: Always offer your escort something to drink. The profile of each escorts lists the favorite drinks, both alcoholic and non-alcoholic. You are welcome to wait until the escort arrives and order roomservice or discover what the minibar has to offer, or prearrange this. One of life's greater joys is fine dining. Needless to say; our escorts love visiting nice restaurants. Don't want to go out for dinner? No problem. A light snack such as fresh fruits or a cheese platter is always appreciated but if your escort is staying with you for 6 or more hours, you will need to provide the escort with a proper meal to avoid getting hungry. Are you spending the night? Then make sure to provide breakfast as well.
The golden rule: Never ask for the contactdetails of the escort or offer yours. They choose to be presented by Society Service for privacy and discretion reasons, but also because they don’t want to arrange appointments by themselves. It is a direct insult to the escort but also to us as an escort service as you want to sideline us after a successful match. We consider that an attempted theft. You also question the reliability of the escort, after all, you are asking the escort to cheat our escort service. Such a breach of our trust will result in listing on various blacklists that are shared within the high class escort industry. The escort knows very well why you are asking this; this type of proposal is only made to save money and suggests you think the escort is not worth the money. The difference between sex for money and sex for free, is that sex for money often costs a lot less… So spare yourself the embarrassment and be respectful towards the escort and our escort service.
The nitty gritty… sex with a high class escort
Discuss your wishes: Our escorts are no mindreader and have to find out in a relatively short time what you like and don’t like. In addition, it can also be a lot of fun and exciting to talk about what turns you on, after you’ve gotten to know each other a little better. Feel free to discuss your desires. Not all wishes can be met, but the escort will never judge you.
“No” means “NO‼”: If you want a service that the escort does not provide… BACK OFF!!! Don’t ruin the mood. Ask the escort how she likes to be touched. Regardless of your experience, every person is different. The first sign of a great lover is a considerate one. Ignoring the needs of the other makes you an ignorant, and thus second-rate lover! Like everything in life, never assume you know it all. If you cannot be shown something new, your mind is closed. We should never stop learning, even in the bedroom!
Safe sex: Our escorts offer safe sex only and will provide all the means necessary to do so to the booking. A condom is always used for vaginal and anal sex, as well as oral sex on a male client. Please do not ask for unsafe sex. This will result in an immediate termination of the booking without refund. In addition to using a condom, the escort will take other precautions, such as avoiding anal to vaginal contact, no close contact with each others genitals, signs of contagious issues such as cold sores and so on.
Practical general sex tips
Insecurities: We all have insecurities, but don’t let them ruin the mood. When all the focus is on how you look, smell and taste, none of you will enjoy sex to the fullest.
Undressing: When the time is there, unwrap each other like an elegant present, not a kid's toy. Lose the socks first and don't keep your t-shirt on to hide your body. You are beautiful the way you are.
Wedgie: Stroking the other gently through their underwear can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between the butt cheeks and soaking it in body juices is not.
Nipples: Nipples are highly sensitive. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a dog toy isn't.
Blowing: Like soft touching, blowing on the skin can be arousing. But there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
Massage: A sensual and relaxing massage is an excellent way to get in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not. Soft and slow touches please.
Seduce each other: Don't push until your partner is eyeball-to-penis/vagina, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis/vagina. If you want your partner to use their mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to them. When in the lucky position of receiving oral sex; don't move around. Just relax.
Lubricant: Using lubricant can increase pleasure for both men and women and is always recommended. It is required for anal penetration.
Penetration: Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts. The worst thing you can do is endlessly pump away like an industrial power tool. You are indulging your sensuality, not pumping gas. Be gentle and avoid discomfort as it will make the other tense and close so you get less deep penetration. Change positions every now and then, don't make the other do all the hard work.
Noice: Lying on your back, not making a sound will make even the most confident lover worry you are not having any fun. However, screaming bloody murder and waking up the neighbors might be a bit too much. Great to hear you’re having a good time, but unless you want your partner to smother you with a pillow, keep it natural.
Orgasms: Some reach orgasm quickly, others not at all. Reaching orgasm is a wonderful feeling but it's not all sex has to offer so don't focus on just this aspect. Building the right anticipation will make your climax far more intense, satisfying and long-lasting. Try holding your sexual energy in, building it up, and only allow release when you have refused yourself several times. You’ll see what we mean…
Rough sex: If you are looking for a “Fifty shades of grey” experience then keep in mind this requires an established trust relationship, lot’s of talk about expectations and boundaries, and can therefore not be expected during a first booking. Neither are our escorts mindreaders. If you like it rough, then make sure to express your boundaries clearly. Our escorts are not going to risk misreading subtle signals…
Menstruation: Our escorts refrain from accepting bookings during their menstrual period. The same is expected from female clients.
Condom disposal: Make sure you store used condoms correctly. Wrap it in tissues and dispose in the bin. Do not flush condoms. They end up on our beaches, and choke our sea life to death.
Practical sex tips on how to please a man
Penis: Take some lubricant and massage the penis, stroking it up and down with medium pressure. Don't pull down too hard, it is painful and can rupture the frenulum (a small piece of skin connected to the head of the penis), resulting in some serious bleeding.
Balls: Most men enjoy some stimulation of their balls, such as caressing, licking, tickling. Unless you are with a masochist, pulling or squeezing the balls hard is not something he will enjoy.
Oral sex: The key to enjoyable oral sex is to imitate a vagina with your mouth. Put your whole mond around the penis and go up and down. Apply mild pressure with your lips and “suck” so a bit of vacuum is created. Move up and down the penis, as far as you feel comfortable. Keep it sensual and sexy. Don’t suck so hard you are about to remove the blood out of the penis. And by all means; make sure your teeth do not come in contact with the penis.
Breaking: Even though there are no bones in a penis, you can certainly break it. Be careful when having harder sex in a position where you are in control. A small slip can bend the penis to the extend that it breaks.
Anal sex: Men have a prostate which is enjoyable when stimulated, but not everybody likes it. Make sure to check first before making a move. Slowly insert a finger, while stroking the penis. When pushing upwards (towards the bellybutton) you will feel a 'ball' the size of a walnut. That's the prostate. Gently stimulate it.
Whole body: Just like women, there’s more to enjoy about the male body than his penis… So start paying them some attention. Stroke his chest, his buttocks, kiss his neck…
Embarrass the penis: Every mans worst nightmare; not being able to maintain an erection. But getting angry or making fun of the penis will only make this worse. Rest assured, a backup plan is in place and you will enjoy your time together to the fullest.
Practical sex tips how to please a woman
Breasts: Focus on the whole breast, not just the exclamation points. Stroke, caress and soothe them. Don't act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness.
Clitoris: Gently rotate your fingers and tongue along the side or just above or below the clitoris. Avoid direct pressure, that's very unpleasant.
Vagina: Don't get carried away and be careful. It’s best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it. Make the "come here" move with your finger to stimulate her G-spot.
Oral sex: Don’t act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris. NO TEETH!!!
Anal sex: Some women love anal stimulation other's don't. Always check with her. Don’t suddenly put a finger in her anus. Even if she likes anal sex, you build that up very calmly and on her initiative. Don't change from anal to vaginal contact without a change of condom or a thorough wash-up.
Whole body: A woman is not a highway with just three turn-offs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel! There are vast areas of her body which you’ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention. Stroke her arms, her face, her stomach, kiss her ankles…
Don't stop: Women, unlike men, don’t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you want to satisfy a woman, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not. Listen to her body language, and the result will be reached faster. Ask her to tell you or show you how she likes it.
Close of play
Only play for overtime if you can pay for overtime. Don’t expect a “quickie” in the last 15 minutes. At that point, you should be talking to the escort about extending your booking or handing a towel as the escort steps out of the shower… don’t think that you can carry on pumping away for hours on end until you have had enough. The deal you have is based on time and you agreed to it in advance. If you wish the escort to stay longer, by all means extend your appointment, but please respect that the escort may have other engagements planned.
Don’t offer to buy the escort a drink or a meal, or suggest going to the cinema, and expect the escort to do so without payment. You may have got on very well, and the escort may genuinely like you, but business is business and the escort will prefer it to be kept that way. As mentioned above, an escort is like any other professional. Ever thought of what would happen if you asked your lawyer to draw up some extra contracts for you, but can he do it in his own time, at home, for free? No. Would your accountant give a few hours’ advice free? No. So don’t confuse the issue. Escorts are the same, but you pay for company, sensuality and time rather than the escorts’ legal or numerical knowledge.
If you feel that your time with your escort was pleasurable and special to you, it is highly appreciated but never expected to give your escort a tip. You can do this at the end of your time together by gracefully and discreetly handing it to the escort. We also appreciate any feedback you may have about your booking with is. Were you satisfied with our agency as a whole and the escort you spent time with? Feedback is always taken seriously as it enables us to further perfect our services.
Now you are completely up to date on how to treat your high class escort... let's find your perfect match!