Why... Book an escort?

Why book an escort?

We often hear people wonder why a person would spend money on booking an escort, when they could just as well pick up a woman in a bar or dating website. We will tell you a bit more about the most common reasons for booking an escort. Needless to say, there's a difference between booking a regular escort and an high class escort but that's been covered at one of our previous blogs: What's the difference?

A lot of people have somewhat of a mental barrier about "having to pay for it", even though it's completely legal, as long as it's between consenting adults. There is nothing wrong with using the services of an escort. It doesn't make you any less of a person and it doesn't imply you're a "loser" of any kind. If anything, it can be a smart move for many and seeing escorts has a lot of advantages. In fact, if you've never tried escorts before, you'll find that the experience is probably different than what you've been led to think it is. And when you realize how it really works, you'll look at it in a very different light. Here are a few reasons why people book escorts.

In the mood for romance

Let’s not beat around the bush. An escort offers romantic, passionate and sexy companionship. Given that you treat her with respect and are a gentleman with impeccable personal hygiene, her companionship most likely includes eroticism. In order to get a woman who's not an escort to have sex with you, you have to find someone who is attracted to you and wants to have sex with you. This can be a difficult and time-consuming task, contrary to booking an escort. Being with an escort is like going on a perfect date where tables are turned. On a normal date you need to sweep your date of her feet, with an escort she will sweep you of your feet. You will share fun and flirtatious conversations, she’ll take an interest in you, laugh at your jokes, make you feel like the most amazing person in the world… and most likely end up in bed for mind blowing sex. All it requires is mutual respect and perfect personal hygiene, and of course a financial compensation for her time.

To indulge in special fantasies

If you have a special fantasy that your partner does not enjoy, it might be an idea to book an escort to indulge in your special fantasy. Escorts are generally very open minded and will not judge you for your preferences, whatever they may be. She most likely already has some experience with your special fantasy. But it’s not only men who indulge in special fantasies, women do too. A common fantasy for a woman is to be with another woman. Instead of turning to the internet or your girlfriends, an escort might be a more suitable choice. Another very common fantasy is for a couple to be with an other woman for a bisexual threesome. It might be challenging to find a female partner that you feel comfortable with, is of your liking, offers no threat to your relationship and will not get awkward after the threesome. Booking an escort is ideal as she is most likely experienced with couples, will offer a great threesome, without having to worry about what happens afterwards.

Be in control

When you are out with someone you have just met then who knows where you could end up or what might happen. With an escort you can take control and go to the restaurant that you love, spend the evening doing exactly what you like to do.


Booking an escort is far more discreet than hooking up in a bar, or with your secretary. Certain people cannot be seen on a date but still desire the (erotic) company of a beautiful woman. A married man with a partner who refuses to be sexual, while he refuses to abstain, might find an escort the most discreet option.

No strings attached

In a relationship you both need to want the same thing and at the same time. Most girlfriends and wives will not be amused when you tell them to meet you at a certain time and location, dress as requested and go away when the fun part is over, like you can with an escort. In a relationship it’s either all or nothing. So when you get the fun, intimacy, romance and passion of being in a relationship, it comes along with dealing with her friends, her family, her religion, her spending habits, her television preferences, her moods, children, ex-lovers, jealousy, anger, etcetera. When booking an escort, the rules and expectations are clear in advance. You pay her for her company and you both commit to having the best time possible with each other, without all complications and hassle of a traditional relationship.

It’s cheaper

Once you get over the "paying for it" barrier, you'll realize that it's really a bargain. What you get is the company of a beautiful, elegant, sensual woman who is generally a better lover than the average woman. Any man who has been trough a divorce will agree even the most expensive escort is cheaper than his ex-wife. Escorts offer a lawyer free alternative to a traditional relationship.

For the variety

Variety goes way beyond what your lover looks like, it’s about much more. Sometimes you might be in the mood for romance and good conversation outside the bedroom, perhaps enjoy some female company at the theatre, an amazing restaurant or just the movies. Other times you might be in the mood for passion and sensuality. Many people like variety between the type of lover they are with and the type of sex they have with them. Escorts offer this variation, a traditional relationship might not.

To become a better lover

In general, escorts are more experienced lovers than the average woman, know their body very well and are comfortable with their sexuality. They have learned and can teach you advanced sexual techniques, are open to answering questions about women and sexuality that most people won’t discuss. This way, escorts can help you become a better lover.

You are not successful at dating

If you’ve been on many first dates and keep being rejected by the women you go out with, this might be very frustrating. Women have a way of picking up on this frustration, which makes you an even less desirable partner. Escorts can break this cycle of rejection and frustration. Escorts will offer you some of the things you are looking for and will make you feel better about yourself. When you go out on a date, you are more relaxed and have a better chance of finding true love than when you’re frustrated and desperate. We have received countless messages from clients of our Virgin Experience, who where so focussed on losing their virginity, they where unable to find a girlfriend as they picked up on this. After losing their virginity through our Virgin Experience, they learned to focus on being a gentleman and finding a girlfriend they could love, not just a person that could help them lose their virginity, resulting in many of our clients now being in a loving relationship. Women like men who are confident and they are repulsed by men who are sexually needy and desperate. That's why when you want to be in a relationship the most, women don't want to be with you.

You are lonely or feeling down

Perhaps you are recovering after a divorce, being dumped or an other form of personal emotional loss, you are feeling lonely and/or down. An escort offers much more than just sex. She offers companionship, a kiss and cuddle, a buddy, will cheer you up, make you feel a lot better about yourself and take your mind of whatever you are worrying about. She will be your confidant, you can tell her personal secrets that you’d never tell even your closest friends. When you need to be with somebody, she’ll be there for you.

To be with a lady you normally wouldn’t get to be with

With an escort, you can go out for the evening with someone who normally well out of your league. Some escorts are truly incredible and offer you an amazing experience with one of the best looking women you will ever spend time with.

You are celebrating something

A divorce might not only require recovery, it can also call for celebration. And so can countless other things. You’ve accomplished a certain goal in business, won the lottery, achieved a milestone, it’s your birthday, and so on. Time to pop open a bottle of bubbly. But champagne is not a drink you drink alone and what better way to celebrate than in the company of one, or perhaps a few beautiful women? Escorts offer the celebration of a lifetime.