What working as a high class escort has brought me

Why working as a high class escort offers more than money

Working as a high class escort often sounds to outsiders like something exciting and controversial that is mainly about money, looks and sex. In practice, I see how the women at Society Service develop in many more ways. Not only financially, but also in the choices they make, how they protect their boundaries and how they see themselves.

For women who are considering working as a high class escort, an honest picture helps more than polished talk. That is exactly why we try to be as transparent as possible on our website. It helps manage expectations and gives a potential escort the chance to make a well considered decision. But what this exciting and lucrative side job really brings often lies in the things we cannot fully predict beforehand. Two of our high class escorts share their experiences here.

Working as a high class escort gives me adventure and insight

"I originally started this for the adventure. That exciting feeling you have before meeting that date for the first time, not knowing whether it is going to be someone fun, but knowing they have already been fully screened, a bit like a blind date where there is already a strong reason to believe it will be a good match. I personally love surprises, as long as they are real surprises. So not knowing who will be on the other side of the door, why this person might suit me, why this person chose me for a pleasant evening, but always with the certainty of safety. That is what I wanted from it. To always be able to seek out that tension. What I discovered later was how enjoyable it is to experience this with colleagues as well. How lovely those colleagues actually are, and how much I enjoy going on adventures with them to share a new experience together.

On a deeper level, this work also gives me insight. What is the client looking for? Why does the client book me? Why does the client book at all? What is the underlying reason, something the client may not even fully understand yet? How can I help the client reach that deeper goal as well as possible? You can only answer that through the social side of things. Through talking and asking questions, whether during pillow talk or not. What is someone really looking for? For me, that becomes a kind of game I start to play. With some people it is very obvious, with others not at all. I have also used this work for something else: all these people with so much life experience, while I still have the world at my feet. How did they make their career choices? Thanks to some of them, I even discovered certain career fairs that genuinely helped me shape my future plans. And every now and then I also try to bring up topics like learning to invest and creating financial stability. There are so many people I can speak to about this who can teach me something new."

Working as a high class escort is not all sunshine and roses

"What this work has personally brought me is best described as growth on multiple levels at the same time. Before I started, I approached life differently: more cautiously, less confident and less inclined to take risks. I can really feel that has changed. For example, I have become much stronger in communication. I can keep conversations flowing effortlessly, even for long periods, and I have learned how to truly connect with someone instead of staying at the level of small talk. I can get to know people quickly and sincerely, and that has helped me not only in this work, but outside of it as well.

My self confidence has also grown. I now know much better what I am worth and what I deserve in the way someone treats me. If someone does not value me or does not treat me properly, it no longer feels like something I have to accept, but something that belongs to them. It has also given me a great deal of financial peace of mind. It gave me the freedom to make choices in my studies and future career that I otherwise would not have dared to make. I now dare to take risks and invest in myself, without constant stress about money.

At the same time, the work has less pleasant sides too, and those are important to mention. I regularly see that bookings revolve entirely around the needs of the other person, whether physical, emotional or the idea of connection. It is important to realise that you need to protect your boundaries well, so your social battery does not get completely drained during a booking. At the same time, you do want to meet those needs. That can be a difficult tension. I also see how many people cheat and are dishonest. Sweet, kind, gentle clients who love their partner very much. That affects the way I look at love and at my own current or future partner.

There are also practical sides that can be heavier than you expect beforehand. Long bookings without a click can be tiring. Travelling to a booking can be intense: traffic jams, difficult to reach locations, parking that does not work out, or still having to travel home in the middle of the night. It all comes with the job. This work can be intense. That is why I am glad I can talk about it with a few people who are close to me. Personally, I would find it difficult to keep this work completely secret."