Teambuilding with the high class escorts

Why staying in touch with the escorts matters to me

For me, quality does not start with a beautiful website, but with the amazing women who work at Society Service. They are mature women with their own life, studies and career, who very consciously choose this work. That also means that I see them, speak to them and take them seriously in everything I do within Society Service as a high class escortservice.

After every booking I speak to the escort. Sometimes that is a short message, sometimes a more extensive conversation. In addition, we see each other during training days, photoshoots and social events. And once a month I invite a small group of about five women for a lovely lunch in their region. Not a mandatory meeting, but a relaxed moment to catch up and to look together at how we can further develop Society Service.

Once we sit down, the conversation really always flows by itself. The women chat away about clients, travel, lingerie, new fantasies, dates that still make them smile and moments when they wondered whether something felt right. There is laughter, sparring and sharing. For me, that is essential. This is where I hear what is really going on and what makes the work worthwhile for them.

Teambuilding in a discreet profession

Escort work is by definition discreet. Much of what happens stays between client and escort. That is exactly why I find teambuilding within a high class escortservice so important. During the lunches, women sit together who have been part of the team for years and colleagues who have only just started. That mix works very well. Experiences are shared, practical tips are exchanged and new colleagues feel that they are not on their own.

I often deliberately bring a number of ideas to such a lunch. A possible new type of arrangement, an extension of our service, an adjustment to the website, a different way of matching, a new destination. I present it, ask what they think and listen. Because ultimately they are the ones sitting at the table with clients, travelling with them and sharing the bed. If something looks good on paper but does not feel right in practice for the women, it is not an option for me.

The common thread in the most beautiful escort experiences

When I ask about the best experiences of the high class escorts, almost the same thing always comes up: the encounters are special. Of course there are many pleasant, enjoyable bookings, but the stories that surface first always have that little bit extra.

Special because the setting itself was exceptional. A luxurious hotel room with a view, an elaborate Michelin starred dinner, a weekend away, an unexpected city trip. Or special because the erotic connection went just one step further than the everyday. A specific preference that could finally be explored, a kinky fantasy that was slowly built up in intensity, a roleplay scenario with a matching outfit. Many escorts find it particularly exciting to discover new sensations and to broaden their sexual horizon; that is precisely what makes this work within a high class escortservice so attractive.

There are also clients who stand out because of who they are. Someone with a unique sense of humour, a beautiful sensitivity, a sharp mind, a calm yet intense presence. And yes, a handsome client of a similar age is also mentioned. Not only because of his looks, but because there is often a very natural click and he has clearly made the effort to create something special together.

When the escort experience is not special

I also always ask about the less pleasant experiences. Ideally I would like everything to be positive, but just as in any other job there are days that are simply mediocre. Even in a high class escortservice, not every working day is unforgettable.

The situations that stand out negatively rarely revolve around a single incident, but rather around the overall atmosphere. A client who is sloppy in terms of self care. Not offering a drink. Constantly emphasising how expensive everything is, without any sense of hospitality. Booking only for the sex and making that very clear, making no effort to seduce her, a cheap room that only just meets the basic requirements, wanting to squeeze in “one last quick round” in the shower in the final minutes.

In other words: situations in which she mainly feels like a service provider ticking boxes. While the whole point is that your high class escort should also be able to lose herself in the moment for a while and not be constantly aware that she is working. She feels that difference immediately, and that is often the difference between “just a booking” and an experience she looks back on with a smile for a long time.

The group chat: behind the scenes with our team

One detail regular readers may enjoy: within our own custom application we have a discrete group chat, accessible only to the escorts. In the application we mainly manage the practical elements of escort work, such as availability, bookings and administrative matters, but the chat is the escorts’ own domain. They use it to coordinate outfits, arrange practical details, reassure each other and enjoy the anticipation together.

A small impression of the tone of these messages:

“Hey @(name), we will see each other tomorrow. So nice. Shall I bring the strap on. That way we will not bring the same one. I will also bring some other toys. Shall we meet somewhere in Amsterdam beforehand and travel to the location together from there. Then you can already pick a toy that we can try during the booking.”

“Anyone have a good idea for a casual outfit. I usually end up a bit too chic instead of casual. The request is casual. Jeans and trainers do not suit me and also do not really fit the booking location. Spill the tea please xxx”

“Dear @(name) and @(name), looking forward to making a party of it with you tonight. FYI, I am going to get some whipped cream, edible confetti, strawberries and party hats. Shall we meet beforehand to write a nice card together for the birthday gentleman. Have fun already and see you later xx”

“Hi ladies, I will probably drive to the training day on Sunday. If anyone would enjoy riding along from Amsterdam RAI, let me know. X”

“@(name), hey love. Lovely to see you tonight. I have seen this gentleman before and he has planned this duo especially for his birthday, so I thought: let us turn it into a birthday show with a boa and decorations. I will buy a nice game in a bit and maybe we can coordinate our outfits. Maybe a pink set and then a white or black set as well. And both a black dress. And both a kinky set, that suits the location very well. Let me know what you think. Xxx”

For clients, a booking is often a special and sometimes even thrilling moment. Behind the scenes it is no different. Escorts cheer each other on, calm each other’s nerves and come up with ideas together to make a booking extra special. That is teambuilding in a profession where much happens in silence.