Safe sex with an escort: everything about condoms
Safe sex with a high class escort: everything about condoms and sexual pleasure
A condom may not be the most exciting topic to bring up when you have a special evening with an attractive high class escort to look forward to. Still, that little piece of latex deserves more attention than it usually gets. Not only does it protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs), it also helps both people feel comfortable and safe.
At Society Service, safe sex is not an optional recommendation but an important requirement. Our high class escorts therefore always use condoms during vaginal and anal sex. When it comes to oral sex, women enjoy a small advantage, as using a dental dam for oral sex on a vagina is not mandatory at our agency. Oral sex on a penis, however, always requires a condom.
There is plenty to discover when it comes to sex, even when we are talking about protected sex. Which condom is actually the best fit? How many do you need? Why does a condom sometimes break or slip off? And what about the persistent misconception that having sex with an escort automatically involves greater health risks? Time to separate fact from fiction.
What does safe sex mean at a high end escort agency?
Safe sex involves more than simply using a condom. It is a combination of protection, personal hygiene, knowledge, mutual respect and clear agreements. One of these agreements is that oral sex on a penis always takes place with a condom. Services such as oral sex without a condom (PZC), coming in the mouth (CIM) and coming on the face (CIF) are not available at our high class escort agency. This is a conscious decision, with the health and personal preferences of our escorts being the most important considerations.
Not every form of physical or sexual contact requires a condom, of course. Kissing, cuddling, massage, including Russian massage and body-to-body massage, and manual stimulation are all possible without one. With so-called 'dry humping', it depends on the level of contact. If the genitals are rubbing against each other, a condom is required. Certain STIs can be transmitted through direct genital contact, even without penetration.
Are escorts at greater risk of STIs? Facts and persistent misconceptions
The prejudice that all sex workers have sexually transmitted infections is as persistent as it is unfounded. Some people assume that an escort automatically presents a greater health risk because of her profession than someone they might meet during a night out. It is not that simple, and the assumption is rather stigmatising.
The risk of contracting an STI is not determined solely by someone's profession or the number of sexual encounters they have. Far more important are the nature of those encounters, consistent use of protection, relevant vaccinations and the timely detection and treatment of infections. An escort who consistently uses condoms, takes her sexual health seriously and gets tested regularly can significantly reduce certain risks. Someone who only has sexual encounters in their private life but rarely uses protection may actually be taking far greater risks. Individual circumstances make a considerable difference.
Can clients see their escort's latest STI test results? Understanding medical privacy
Our escorts undergo regular STI testing and are well informed about safe sex. A negative STI test, however, is not a lifelong guarantee but merely a snapshot in time. Some infections also take a certain amount of time before they can be detected. Above all, someone's medical information is among the most personal information there is. Society Service therefore does not request individual test results and does not share such information with clients. This is not a lack of transparency but a matter of respecting medical privacy. You can, however, rely on our escorts consistently following precautions such as condom use.
How many condoms do you need during an escort booking, and who brings them?
Our escorts bring condoms in various sizes and generally allow for the use of around ten condoms per booking, or more for bookings lasting longer than twelve hours. That does not mean there will be ten 'rounds' of sex, but rather that an extended lovemaking session is rarely a linear activity. It tends to come in waves, with condoms being changed regularly between those waves. Naturally, there is also a reserve for unexpected circumstances.
Your escort brings everything needed to practise safe sex, but you are welcome to bring your own condoms. We actually recommend doing so if you need a particularly unusual size or use a specific type of condom, such as a latex-free condom, a female condom or another specialised variety. As long as the packaging is unopened and undamaged, and the expiry date has not passed, your escort will have no objection.
Which condom is best? Size, material and personal preference
Anyone who thinks all condoms are the same probably has not stood in front of the contraceptives section for quite some time. These days, there are countless varieties: ultra-thin, extra strong, ribbed, with additional lubricant, latex-free and available in all sorts of sizes. Yet the most important feature of a good condom is surprisingly simple: it needs to fit properly.
The right condom size makes a world of difference, both in terms of safety and comfort. Size is primarily determined by the circumference of the penis rather than its length. Latex condoms are the most common choice, but they are not suitable for everyone. For people with a latex allergy, condoms made from materials such as polyisoprene or polyurethane offer an alternative.
When should you replace a condom? Expiry dates and proper storage
That one condom you have been carrying around in your wallet 'just in case' for years, or the one that has accompanied you on holiday after holiday in your toiletry bag, can safely go in the bin. Prolonged exposure to heat, friction and other conditions may have compromised its reliability.
Besides, a condom is not an item of clothing that you simply put back on after a short break. Yet there are surprisingly many misconceptions about this. A new condom is necessary after every ejaculation if you intend to have sex again, when you lose your erection and the condom consequently becomes loose, when switching between anal and vaginal or oral penetration, when changing sexual partners, and whenever a condom becomes damaged or slips off.
When using sex toys, it is also important to replace condoms when switching between body openings or partners. For anal stimulation with fingers, a finger condom can be used. A few extra seconds of attention can prevent a great deal of unnecessary trouble.
Why do condoms break or slip off during sex? Understanding condom accidents
A condom that breaks or slips off is usually not simply a matter of bad luck. Often, the fit, incorrect use or insufficient lubricant plays a role. Too much lubricant in the wrong place can also cause problems. A condom that is too loose may slip off, while one that is too tight can feel uncomfortable and put additional strain on the material.
Friction can increase, particularly during prolonged or vigorous penetration. Using enough suitable lubricant reduces that friction and can help prevent damage. Lubricant should mainly be applied to the outside of the condom rather than underneath it, as that can actually cause the condom to slip off. Oil-based products such as massage oil, petroleum jelly and even certain lip balms can damage latex. That is why it is important to use a water-based or silicone-based lubricant that is compatible with latex condoms.
After climaxing, an erection usually begins to subside, causing the condom to become looser. It is therefore important to hold the condom at the base of the penis while withdrawing. The most elegant approach is to excuse yourself to the bathroom, remove the condom there, tie it off, wrap it in a tissue and dispose of it in the bin. Not down the toilet.
Condoms and sexual pleasure: less sensation or greater relaxation?
A common objection to condoms is that they reduce sensation during sex. For some people, there may well be some truth to that. A condom is, after all, a physical barrier, and not everyone experiences that in the same way. But less direct contact does not automatically mean less pleasure.
The right size, a comfortable material and sufficient lubricant can make a considerable difference. Besides, sexual arousal is not solely about physical sensitivity. Relaxation, trust, attraction and mutual attention are at least as important. Someone who is constantly worrying about a possible STI or an unintended pregnancy is unlikely to enjoy the moment to its fullest either.