Exclusive dining beyond the beaten path
High end restaurants beyond classic French and Italian cuisine
When thinking of a luxurious Dinner Date with your high class escort, restaurants with a classic French foundation, Italian fine dining or a modern European tasting menu often come to mind first. That is understandable, as many restaurants in the higher segment are still shaped by those traditions. Yet that view is too limited. Beyond the familiar French and Italian corner, more and more restaurants are translating cuisines that are often eaten more casually into refined, evening long experiences.
Think Japanese omakase, traditional kaiseki, modern Chinese cuisine, Peruvian Nikkei, Indonesian gastronomy, Cantonese fine dining or Scandinavian inspired New Nordic cuisine. Not only the level of the cuisine matters, but also the extent to which the dinner becomes an experience.
Japanese omakase: trusting the chef
Within Japanese cuisine, omakase may be the most elegant choice for a special Dinner Date. Literally, it means that you leave the decision to the chef. No endless deliberation over separate dishes, no menu that removes the suspense before the first word has been exchanged. You take your seat and trust the chef.
The most iconic address is Yamazato in Amsterdam. Yamazato is not just any Michelin starred restaurant: in 2002, it became the first kaiseki restaurant outside Japan to receive a star. At that time, Japan itself was not even included in the guide yet. Chef Masanori Tomikawa has been cooking there at the same high level for decades, seasonally, without compromise, accompanied by kimono dressed service and a view of a Japanese garden. Tomikawa and his team do what they have always done: cook seasonally at the highest level. That has kept a Michelin star firmly in place for more than two decades. The Michelin Guide describes how he shows his technique in a dish where a hollowed out persimmon is filled with pieces of the same fruit, Japanese scallops and maitake mushroom, covered with a gratinated mousse of egg, lotus and dashi. For a Dinner Date where tranquillity, discretion and a serene environment matter, Yamazato is a natural choice.
Those looking for something more intimate will find it at Umeno in Amsterdam. Less hotel chic, more concentrated. And for those who would like to combine Japanese cuisine with sake in a slightly more relaxed setting, EN Japanese Kitchen & Sake Bar in Amsterdam offers refinement without the weight of a classic fine dining experience, which can make an evening feel lighter and more enjoyable.
A very different kind of Japanese experience can be found at Hokkai Kitchen in IJmuiden. The location may not be the first thing you associate with a special evening out, but that is exactly the point. Hokkai is about exceptional fish quality straight from the surrounding area, craftsmanship and simplicity. For guests who truly appreciate real sushi and sashimi, this can be more impressive than any theatrical setting.
In Rotterdam, Chef’s Table is the most intimate address within this style. You sit close to the chef, watch the dishes being built before your eyes and follow the rhythm of a seasonal tasting menu. That sense of proximity makes it especially suitable for a Dinner Date: it naturally gives you something to talk about.
Peruvian Nikkei at Nazka
Those who enjoy precision, freshness and tension on the plate will find it at Nazka in Amsterdam. Nazka cooks from a Peruvian foundation, but the cuisine is more than that. Chef Koosh Kothari grew up in Lima, learned his craft at the renowned restaurant Central by Virgilio Martínez, and brings his Indian roots as an extra layer. The restaurant quickly won the hearts of Amsterdam gourmets and critics, received a 9+ in Het Parool, and was noticed by both the Michelin Guide and Gault&Millau.
Modern Chinese: Xīn, Bar Bù and Zheng
Chinese restaurants in the Netherlands are still often associated with shared classics, dim sum, takeaway or large family tables. That image seriously underestimates Chinese gastronomy. Within Chinese cuisine, there are countless regional traditions, techniques and layers of flavour that lend themselves beautifully to fine dining.
In Rotterdam, Xīn shows what modern Chinese cuisine can look like when it is not reduced to the usual familiar dishes. The kitchen offers a contemporary interpretation of Chinese flavours and techniques without losing their origin. Surprising, but not forcedly experimental. A good balance for an evening with someone you want to impress without making it feel like a culinary exam.
Bar Bù in Rotterdam also fits this selection well. Here, the focus is on Cantonese inspired dishes, cocktails and a stylish urban atmosphere. Less restrained than a classic tasting menu, but ideal when the evening may be a little livelier and more sensual. This is a place for a date that is already in motion, not for a first meeting where both sides are still carefully feeling their way.
In The Hague, Zheng is one of the most special Chinese fine dining addresses in the Netherlands. Chef Han Ji connects the tradition of imperial banquets with his own culinary vision, with a menu structured in chapters that travel along the four major regional cuisines of China. Zheng is also included in the Michelin Guide. For a Dinner Date where the dinner may slowly build, and where the experience itself feeds the conversation, Zheng is an excellent fit.
Indonesian cuisine as a luxurious evening out
Indonesian food holds a special place in the Netherlands. Many people know it from the rijsttafel, from the toko around the corner or from familiar dishes that feel almost Dutch in their familiarity. But Indonesian cuisine can be presented in a richer and more refined way than many people sometimes expect.
Ron Gastrobar Indonesia is the most obvious name in that respect. Java born chef Agus is responsible for the kitchen, and his satay, made with chicken and goat, is achieved with a precision that is impossible to overlook. Ron Blaauw gave back his two Michelin stars years ago to cook in a more accessible and personal way, and that is exactly what makes his Indonesian concept so pleasant: it does not feel like a restaurant trying to take itself seriously, but it does feel like a restaurant that takes the cuisine seriously.
For a Dinner Date, Indonesian cuisine can work very well, precisely because it invites sharing. It is less distant than some classic fine dining experiences, but can still feel luxurious and special. Especially when the evening does not feel like a compulsory round of rijsttafel, but like a real culinary journey.
Scandinavian and New Nordic: Bøg
Not traditionally French or Italian does not automatically mean Asian or Latin American. Bøg in The Hague chooses a very different direction: New Nordic cuisine, based on Scandinavian techniques such as fermenting, smoking and curing. The name is Danish for beech, the national tree of Denmark, which immediately makes clear that this is not superficial style imitation.
Guests choose between a vegetarian menu and a fish and meat menu, both equally creative. Locally sourced ingredients are combined with a minimalist approach, where subtlety and pronounced flavours seek each other out. The Michelin Guide has included Bøg. Reviews describe a restaurant that radiates calm and concentration, with an interior so sober that you look nowhere else but at the plates and the high class escort opposite you.