6. Sexual fantasy: Being submissive

Common male sexual fantasies

Many researchers have tried to offer an insights into the most common male sexual fantasies. For a special Blog-Series we have compiled the 10 most common male fantasies that can be turned into reality at our high class escortservice. Read a little bit more about fantasy 6: Being submissive.

What is being submissive?

Submission is a set of behaviours, customs, and rituals involving the man being submissive in an erotic episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM. Both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants, Doms (male) or Dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives, or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. "Dominatrix" is a term usually reserved for a female professional dominant who dominates others for pay.

What is this fantasy about?

Being dominated is not just about being turned on by a little bit of pain. Men sexually fantasize about times when they would end up in bed with a woman who will bind him to the bed with handcuffs and rip his clothes off and totally, completely dominate him. It might be an ego crusher, but her aggression comes from her attraction for him, right? She desires him and wants him, so it’s all cool and sexy. Having a controlling partner is just what a man needs once in a while. To many men in a high powered job, it can be liberating and very arousing to not be in control for a while. He wants to lay back and do whatever she tells him to do. He wants her to be in charge and use his body however she wants to get herself off. He wants his woman to coax him and dominate him in bed. It tells him that she knows what she wants and it excites him to know that she will have her way to get it.

What’s possible with a high class escort?

Approximately half of our high class escorts is open to BDSM in a dominant position. Only soft to medium domination is offered though, such as some bondage and spanking. Our escorts are not available for hard domination. A younger escort can help you act out the fantasy of being her sex slave, to fulfil al her fantasies. But do you want to be the innocent toyboy for a while, then feel free to invite one of our more mature escorts. In general, our younger escorts offer soft domination only, more mature escorts are open to medium domination.