A submissive high class BDSM escort

Our world revolves around sexual fantasy, delving into domination and submission, the sensual and the erotic. We play with our mind as well as our body. Our high class escorts invite you to join them for a decadent journey into the forbidden world of BDSM, where excitement, desire and trust go hand in hand.

Yes Sir! Do you like the sound of that? Then a booking with a high class escort who is open to erotic BDSM in a submissive role might be just right for you. Perhaps you want to take the lead as a confident, dominant lover, give her a firm spanking on her buttocks, or let her playfully obey your instructions while you decide when and how she is being pleasured. Your high class escort will hand over control to you and step with you into a world of passion and devotion.

Several escorts within our high class escort service are available for BDSM in a submissive role and genuinely enjoy this themselves. The level of experience with submissive BDSM can differ greatly per escort, from curious beginner to more experienced submissive. The same applies to our clients, so you go on a journey of discovery together, where mutual pleasure, safety and respect for each other's boundaries always have the highest priority.

Bookings with a submissive BDSM escort: the BDSM levels

BDSM includes bondage and discipline, dominance and submission and sadism and masochism. Within our escort service we distinguish between soft, medium and hard submissive BDSM. The following gives you clarity about what is included in a regular Girlfriend Experience and when a BDSM surcharge applies. Do not hesitate to express your wishes. If something you would like to explore is not mentioned, simply ask.

Soft submissive BDSM

Soft submissive BDSM is a naughty interpretation of a Girlfriend Experience, in which you playfully take the lead and your escort willingly follows you. You take charge without there being a separate BDSM session. Think of a firm smack on her buttocks, gently pulling her hair while kissing, dirty talk, using a blindfold to intensify her experience or tying her hands with your tie. There is no special preparation, no BDSM gear and no structured “session”, and BDSM never becomes the main focus during sex. No surcharge applies for soft BDSM. If you request cuffs, rope or other specific BDSM gear, your booking is automatically considered at least medium BDSM.

Medium submissive BDSM

With medium submissive BDSM the escort consciously chooses a submissive role and you take the position of dominant. BDSM then becomes a clear part of the eroticism. Beforehand, you agree together which fantasies you want to explore, which words, actions and tools are desired and which boundaries remain absolute. Bondage can be part of the experience, with hands and feet tied with cuffs and rope in such a way that your escort can still free herself. Mild pain stimuli, for example with the hand, a paddle, a light flogger or a soft whip, can be highly arousing but may not leave marks. You can instruct her to please you with extensive oral sex, possibly deep throat with gagging but always safe. Playing with the power dynamic can be done through clear commands or in the form of role play. You can stimulate the senses with a blindfold, tickling, sensory deprivation, tease and denial where you bring her to the edge of an orgasm, and mild anal stimulation with a finger or small toy. Tools such as a ball gag, collar, nipple clamps and pinwheel can be used. This level requires more focus and energy from the escort and therefore carries a surcharge of €100 per escort per (part of) 24 hours.

Hard submissive BDSM

Hard submissive BDSM within our escort service is reserved for clients who have met the escort before and always requires a prior discussion and aftercare as part of the booking. BDSM is an important focal point of the booking; the dynamic between dominant and submissive becomes more intense, both parties step deeper into their role and the experience is more pronounced both mentally and physically. Elements you know from medium play can be sustained for longer and built up more strongly. Bondage can, for example, go further than just wrists or ankles, with harnesses around the body in which the escort cannot free herself independently. Impact play with pain stimuli can be given a clear structure, with a calm start, build-up in strength and rhythm, a phase in which the intensity is maintained and a conclusion in which the body can calm down again. Temporary redness or light welts may occur, but heavy bruises are expressly not allowed. Sessions at a specialised BDSM venue, the use of electro stimulation, face slapping (soft), spreader bars, bondage harnesses and hoods always fall under the hard level. This level requires prior experience and considerably more energy from the escort and therefore carries a surcharge of €250 per escort per (part of) 24 hours.

A hard no

Certain practices are never possible within our escort service. No unsafe or extreme BDSM services are offered. This includes, among other things, the use of a cane, any form of blood or needles, breath play, unprotected oral sex and rimming, activities that cause heavy or lasting physical marks, extreme humiliation and role play with themes such as incest or coercion. Our escorts are not hardened subs. For heavy requests we recommend contacting a BDSM specialist. Our escorts do not have the training needed to offer more extreme BDSM practices in a safe way.

Guidelines with a submissive BDSM escort

Fetish and anal

Light fetish elements are naturally woven into medium and hard BDSM and are included in the BDSM surcharge. This concerns, for example, wearing clothing made of materials such as leather or latex as part of your dominant BDSM scene. Heavier fetish wishes, such as golden shower, sploshing and combinations of several lighter fetishes within one booking, carry an additional fetish surcharge. Anal stimulation that goes beyond mild (A-levels or anal sex) is also not included in the BDSM surcharge and has its own additional fee.

Special BDSM outfits and items

When your BDSM fantasy requires a special item or outfit that the escort does not own, you will be asked to purchase this and bring it to the booking. As an alternative, you can make a deposit with which we will purchase the item or outfit in advance for the escort so she can bring it to the booking. Finally, we also have a naughty BDSM box available, which can be rented per booking.

A surcharge without guarantee

A surcharge applies to medium and hard BDSM. In addition, a separate surcharge may apply for more intense fetish, anal sex and extra time needed for preparation or aftercare outside your booking. If your request requires the escort to spend extra time outside the booking duration, a surcharge of €50 per hour applies. In general, no more than one hour is needed. This is, for example, the case when you ask your escort to bring her extensive BDSM collection to the booking, which must be selected, packed and cleaned afterwards.

The comfort and consent of the escort always come first. There are many reasons why an escort may not feel like engaging in BDSM. Therefore, any surcharges are charged in advance but can be (partially) credited afterwards. If at any time your escort decides that she cannot or does not wish to fulfil your request for BDSM, you can email us within 24 hours after your booking with a brief explanation to request a refund of the relevant surcharge. Once we have confirmed this with your escort, we will credit (part of) the surcharge back to your account as a credit for a future booking. After this 24-hour period the surcharge is considered final and as earned by the escort. This means that you may pay for the preparation, but not for the execution.