7. Sexual fantasy: Being dominant

Common male sexual fantasies

Many researchers have tried to offer an insights into the most common male sexual fantasies. For a special Blog-Series we have compiled the 10 most common male fantasies that can be turned into reality at our high class escortservice. Read a little bit more about fantasy 7: Being dominant.

What is being dominant?

Dominance is a set of behaviours, customs, and rituals involving the man being dominant in an erotic episode or lifestyle. It is a subset of BDSM. Both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants, Doms (male) or Dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives, or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session.

What is this fantasy about?

Men naturally see themselves superior to women. Being dominant in bed is certainly very "masculine" so it is normal for them to fantasize about being in control. They are innately territorial and they want their woman to be submissive to them. Men often fantasize about taking an innocent woman on their bed and passionately making love with her. The thought about penetrating an innocent woman awakens the chivalrous nature within him and it makes his fantasy deliciously exquisite. Regardless of how much you love and respect women, it can be very exciting to being dominant during sex. Many men have the fantasy of being dominant in bed and having a submissive woman. They want to take control and take the lead in bed. This varies in extremity, from rough sex with some mild spanking, to full on Fifty Shades of Grey scenes.

What’s possible with a high class escort?

Approximately a third of our high class escorts is open to BDSM in a submissive position. Only soft submission is offered though, such as some bondage and spanking. Our escorts are not available for medium to hard submission. The escort can help you act out the fantasy of the naughty schoolgirl who needs some spanking and softly surrender to you.