A dominant high class BDSM escort

Our world revolves around sexual fantasy, delving into domination and submission, the sensual and the erotic. We play with our mind as well as our body. Our high class escorts invite you to join them for a decadent journey into the forbidden world of BDSM where only your dreams are the limit.

Sometimes, submission and dominance are far more natural, instinctive ways to show affection than pretending to be equals. The approach of our high class escorts to domination is erotic, sensual and adventurous, allowing you to explore how letting go of control and fully surrender can unleash your deepest desires and emotions. Submit to the power, mercy and beauty of the escort. Don't worry, you are in safe hands.

Our kinky escorts who offer BDSM in a dominant position are open minded, playful and creative, making each experience unique. They enjoy discovering what makes you tick, what raises your heartbeat and what makes you weak at the knees. Our dominant BDSM escorts find it exhilarating and fascinating to explore your submissive side and their dominant side, within the desires and boundaries you both define together. Our clientele is diverse and their wishes and fantasies are varied, and every situation is treated with the care and trust it deserves.

Bookings with a dominant BDSM escort: the BDSM levels

BDSM includes bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), sadism and masochism (S&M). Within our escort service we distinguish between soft, medium and hard dominant BDSM. This gives you clear guidance on what is included in a regular Girlfriend or Boyfriend Experience and when a BDSM surcharge applies. Please do not feel embarrassed to express your desires. If something you wish to explore is not mentioned, just ask.

Soft dominant BDSM

Soft dominant BDSM is the more naughty extension of a GFE. It is a flavour, not a full scene. Think of a firm smack on the buttocks, light hair pulling, dirty talk, taking the lead more decisively during sex, using a blindfold to heighten the senses or loosely tying hands with a silk scarf. The goal is to tease, surprise and intensify arousal, not to take full control or create strict power dynamics. There is no special preparation, no BDSM gear and no structured “session”, and BDSM never becomes the main focus during sex. Soft BDSM does not require any surcharge. If you request cuffs, rope or other specific BDSM gear, your booking automatically counts as at least medium BDSM.

Medium dominant BDSM

From the moment BDSM becomes a clear and planned part of your booking, we move into medium or hard BDSM. Medium dominant BDSM means that BDSM is one of the main themes during sex. During medium BDSM, your escort may tie hands or feet with cuffs or rope to limit your movement but can still be released by you when needed. She may use her hands and items such as a paddle, light flogger or soft whip for mild punishment without leaving marks. Erotic Femdom and clear dominant and submissive roles, role play based on power dynamics, sensory deprivation, tickling, commands, mild humiliation, tease and denial, mild anal play, facesitting, spitting and erotic wrestling are all examples of medium BDSM. Other options for gear include a ball gag, nipple clamps, candles and a pinwheel. This level requires the escort to invest more focus and energy and therefore carries a surcharge of €100 per escort per (part of) 24 hours.

Hard dominant BDSM

Hard dominant BDSM within our escort service is reserved for clients who have met the escort before and always requires prior discussion and aftercare as part of the booking. Here the BDSM scene is more intense and takes up a substantial part of your erotic experience. The focus is on a deeper psychological and physical experience. The same elements as in medium BDSM can be explored with greater impact and over a longer period of time, for example more elaborate bondage that is not easily escaped, structured punishment and impact play with a clear build up and cool down and temporary marks, or sessions at a specialised BDSM venue. Gear used solely with hard dominant BDSM includes electro devices, spreader bars, bondage harnesses, hoods and single tail whips. This level requires prior experience and for the escort to invest significantly more energy and therefore carries a surcharge of €250 per escort per (part of) 24 hours.

A hard no

Certain practices are never possible within our escort service. No extreme BDSM services are offered. This includes the use of a cane, any form of blood or needles, urethral sounding, breath play, activities that cause heavy or lasting physical marks, extreme humiliation and role play involving themes such as incest or forced scenarios. Our escorts are not professional mistresses or masters. For more extreme requests we recommend contacting a specialised mistress or master. Our escorts do not have the training required to safely offer more extreme BDSM practices.

Guidelines with a dominant BDSM escort

Fetish and passive anal

Light fetish elements are naturally woven into medium and hard BDSM and are included in the BDSM surcharge. This covers, for example, wearing clothes made from materials such as leather or latex, body and foot worship, facesitting and feminization as part of your dominant BDSM scene. More intense fetish requests, such as golden shower, sploshing or extensive cross dressing and a combinations of several lighter fetishes in one booking, incur an additional fetish surcharge. Anal play that goes beyond mild, such as our Passive Anal service (pegging) is also not included in the BDSM surcharge and carries its own additional fee.

Special BDSM outfits and items

When your BDSM fantasy requires a special item or outfit that the escort does not own, you will be asked to purchase this and bring it to the booking. Alternatively, you can provide us with a prepayment of which we will purchase the outfit or item in advance for the escort to bring to the booking. Finally, we also have a naughty BDSM box available, which can be rented per booking.

A surcharge without guarantee

A surcharge applies to medium and hard BDSM. In addition, a seperate surcharge may apply for more intense fetish play, passive anal service and extra time needed for preparation or aftercare outside your booking. If your request requires the escort to spend extra time outside the booking duration, a surcharge of €50 per hour applies. In general, no more than one hour is needed. This is the case, for example, if you ask your escort to bring her extensive BDSM collection to the booking, which must be selected, packed and cleaned afterwards

The escort’s comfort and consent are paramount. There are many reasons why an escort might not be in the mood for BDSM, so we charge any applicable surcharges in advance but may credit them afterwards. If at any time your escort decides she is unable or unwilling to fulfil your request for BDSM, you may email us a brief explanation within 24 hours of your booking’s conclusion to request a refund of the relevant surcharge. Once we’ve confirmed with your escort, we’ll credit (part of) that surcharge back to your account for use on a future booking. After this 24-hour window has closed, the surcharge will be deemed fully earned by the escort. This way, it is possible you may pay for the preparation but not for the execution.