What are the do’s and don’ts with an escort?

Ensuring a respectful and enjoyable encounter

Do’s with a high class escort in short:

• First and foremost; Treat the escort with kindness and respect.
• She is not there to provide a simple sexual service, but to share an experience with that transcends the erotic. 
• Open yourself up to form a connection with your escort and take a genuine interest in each other.
• Welcome your escort with her favorite drinks and snacks, or a full meal depending on the time and duration of your booking. 
• Go out together, have fun, form a connection over a fun activity.
• You are welcome to freely but politely express your desires.
• As you’ll be getting very close and personal, your personal hygiene and overall grooming should be impeccable.
• What you give is what you get, therefore mutual enjoyment should be your main focus throughout the experience. 
• Surprise her with a small personal gift.

Don’ts with a high class escort in short:

• The terms and conditions, such as the rates, are fixed and not up for negotiation.
• Don’t grope her the minute she walks in but take time to establish a connection outside the bedroom first.
• When forming this connection, avoid questions that may come off as intrusive or derogatory.
• Full consent is always required so never attempt to push boundaries or pressure your escort.
• Drug use and unsafe sex are a hard no.
• During the last ten minutes of your booking, your escort will freshen up and get ready to leave.
• If you wish to spend more time with your escort you may extend your booking or submit a new booking request.
• Asking to exchange contact details is not allowed.

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Other frequently asked questions from clients about do’s and don’ts with an escort

Below you’ll find additional questions about manners, etiquette, and expectations, answered honestly.

How do I welcome the escort in a good way? Open the door, give her space to put down her bag and take off her coat, and take the coat from her. Introduce yourself and offer her something to drink right away. Then hand over the payment discreetly and give her a moment to confirm with our office that everything is in order.

Which questions are better not to ask? Avoid personal questions such as her real name, how many clients she meets, how much money she earns, whether she pays taxes, what her partner thinks, or whether her parents know she works as an escort. Questions like these can feel patronising and disrespectful. Keep the conversation light or go deeper in a way that matters to both of you, but respect her privacy.

How should I handle alcohol during the booking? A drink to settle nerves or set the mood is fine. Excessive drinking tends to work against you and can negatively affect both your experience and hers. Drug use is not allowed under any circumstances.

What if I realise I want to extend the booking? Ideally, bring this up during the first half of the booking. It usually leads to better rates and a more natural flow. Do not expect the escort to spend extra time with you for free, for example to grab a bite together. Any time you spend together is paid, whether it’s in the bedroom or outside it.

How should I handle payment? Many clients pay in advance by bank transfer so the mood on arrival isn’t disrupted. If you do pay on the spot, do it as soon as the escort arrives. Have the amount ready in an open envelope and hand it over discreetly. Make sure it’s the correct amount so neither of you is put in an awkward position. Avoid comments about how expensive it is. It’s a major mood killer and suggests you don’t feel the escort is worth it.

What does the escort expect in terms of food and drinks? Always have a selection of drinks and something to eat available. For a shorter booking, a light snack is enough. For a longer booking or around dinner time, provide a meal. If you spend the night together, arrange breakfast as well. Offer a few options, as tastes differ.

Which questions are better not to ask the escort agency? You can ask us anything, but please try to find the answer on our website first. We provide a Digital Assistant and a search function to help you quickly locate information. Can’t find the answer? Then email us. Explicit questions are also fine, but if we get the impression your excitement starts with horny talk directed at us, we will end the contact immediately. Keep communication with the agency businesslike and respectful, just as you would with any other service provider, even if the topic is a bit spicier.

How should I approach the erotic side of the booking? Let the escort make the first move towards a more intimate atmosphere. During the first hour of your booking, she is the only one who may take the initiative towards erotics. After that, you may do so as well. Discuss your wishes at a relaxed moment when you both feel more at ease. Your escort can’t read minds, so openness helps. She will indicate boundaries, and those must be respected without debate.

Can I give feedback after the booking? Yes, and it’s genuinely appreciated. Feedback helps us improve our service and is also useful for matching in a future booking.

What if something doesn’t go as expected during the booking? Address it calmly and respectfully with the escort, or contact our office. Testing boundaries or applying pressure is never the solution and will always lead to a less pleasant experience for both of you. If you want to report something afterwards, please use the usual channels so we can handle it properly.