Working as a high class escort: a personal story

From application to first booking at Society Service

In our previous blog, we shared the numbers. Over 8,000 individuals apply each year to our high class escort service. Only 0.5 percent, around forty per year, ultimately complete their first booking through Society Service. That percentage is no coincidence. It reflects a careful process of selection, interviews, self reflection and mutual assessment. But numbers never tell the full story.

What does it actually mean to be one of those forty? How does it feel to move from curiosity, doubt and ambition through that funnel and finally begin? What happens between that first quiet spark of interest and the very first booking, where excitement, professionalism, adventure, sensuality and responsibility all come together?

In this blog, for the first time, we give the floor extensively to one of our escorts. Anonymous, yet open. She shares how an article about Society Service once planted a subtle idea, how that idea grew into a conscious decision, and what the reality behind the scenes truly looks like. Not a marketing story, but a personal perspective on selection, collaboration, growth and the impact this work can have, both professionally and privately.

My experience with Society Service from an escort’s perspective

"Earlier this year, after reading two beautiful blogs featuring client experiences with Society Service, in which I even subtly recognised myself twice (something about a hot shower and the kind gentleman who knocked on the door when my colleague and I may have been slightly too enthusiastic during a duo booking), I felt it was time to share my own experience. This time from my perspective: that of a high class escort.

I clearly remember working at the time for a well known Dutch business magazine that regularly featured entrepreneurs. An interview with Marike was published, and I found it fascinating. Not only the concept of Society Service, but especially her vision of the profession and the level of professionalism. At the same time, I thought: I would never dare to do that myself. I was also in a relationship then. Yet without realising it, a seed had been planted.

The thoughts kept returning. Every now and then I would visit the website again, read blogs, look at photos and imagine what it would be like to have a part time job as a high class escort. What started as a passing curiosity slowly evolved into a serious dream.

When my relationship ended, because I was faced with the choice of marrying young and emigrating to a far away country or staying in the Netherlands, I suddenly had the space to honestly ask myself: what do I truly want? I decided to research extensively. Not only the website and blogs of Society Service, but also the Escort Bible, news articles, interviews, videos and podcasts. I wanted to understand exactly what I was stepping into, and above all whether it truly suited me.

A few months later, almost two years ago now, I made the decision and applied. I completed the application form on the website and submitted a few photos of myself. Within a few days I received a message informing me that I had passed the initial selection and was invited to complete an additional questionnaire. Based on that, I was invited for a first meeting with Marike, at the bar of a five star hotel in Amsterdam.

The invitation mentioned the meeting would last around twenty minutes. That is not long, and you only get one chance to make a first impression, so I prepared thoroughly. I knew what I wanted to share about myself and had written down several questions. The conversation felt pleasant and relaxed. I genuinely enjoyed meeting Marike after everything I had read and seen about her. When I told her the next day how enthusiastic I felt, the feeling turned out to be entirely mutual.

I was invited to a second meeting, this time together with other applicants. We brought outfits to discuss what would be suitable for bookings, administrative matters were explained, work names were chosen and Marike provided detailed guidance on safe intimacy. There was ample time to answer all our questions.

What stayed with me most was my first impression of the other women. I had apparently expected a different type. Instead, I met natural beauties, intelligent, warm, spontaneous women whom you would not immediately assume wanted to work as escorts. I found that refreshing and reassuring. I knew for certain: I am going to do this.

Then comes the waiting for the first booking. Marike clearly makes an effort, especially at the beginning, to find a client who is genuinely a good match. Sometimes that can take a while, but in my case it happened relatively quickly. And the match was real. We talked for hours about shared interests and deeper topics. What I value so much about Society Service is that bookings allow room for genuine attention and connection. It goes far beyond the purely erotic aspect.

Since then, I have had many extraordinary encounters. I have laughed until I cried, heard fascinating stories, experienced incredible intimacy and explored and expanded my boundaries. From several days away at special destinations to culinary highlights, group experiences and everything in between.

It is also important to mention Marike’s way of communicating. From my perspective, she can initially be quite direct and sometimes appear brief. For me, that works extremely well. I appreciate clarity and efficiency, and expectations that are openly expressed, with space for mutual feedback. That space genuinely exists. Marike always says things as they are, but she is also open to feedback herself. She listens and takes you seriously. That creates an equal collaboration. In daily practice I also appreciate how efficiently everything is organised. As an escort, you manage your own availability in an online calendar, which creates clarity and peace of mind. No endless messages or confusion, but a system that simply works.

Beyond the experiences, there is of course the financial aspect. The earnings are strong and proportionate to the responsibility and professionalism this work requires. It allows me to set aside savings each month toward purchasing an apartment in Amsterdam and to build starting capital for a future business.

What working with Society Service has brought me personally goes far beyond beautiful bookings. I have become stronger in setting boundaries, also in my corporate career, and at the same time freer in expressing my desires. I have learned that softness and honesty can coexist. That you do not need to play a role to be attractive. My confidence has deepened, not superficially, but from within, by experiencing that genuine attention, respect and interest matter at least as much as appearance. I feel more independent, calmer and more connected to myself.

Finally, I want to say something about privacy and discretion. At Society Service, these are clearly taken seriously, not only toward clients but also among escorts. A work name is always used in communication and administration, and even between colleagues. No one knows your real name or private phone number, as we communicate through a dedicated, well secured app that includes a group chat with colleagues. It feels safe and professional. That level of care provides a sense of protection and trust, which in this profession is invaluable.

What began as a fascinating story I encountered through my work became a quiet thought. What once felt like a dream eventually became my daily reality. Not as an escape, but as a conscious and carefully considered choice for freedom. And as long as it remains that, I am exactly where I want to be."