Losing your virginity: a client's story

Losing your virginity with a high class escort service: a client shares his experience

Over the past few weeks, we have written extensively about our Virginity Service. We explored the doubts beforehand, taking that first step, how clients experience the booking and intimacy, and what often changes afterwards, or sometimes doesn't. Clients who use our services come from all walks of life, and every personal experience is unique. At the same time, there are many similarities. In this blog, we would like to share the experience of one of our clients.

Having prejudices may not be particularly admirable, but it is undeniably human. We all have them. We have assumptions about people who work in the sex industry, those who make use of their services, people who are still virgins, or individuals on the autism spectrum. Fortunately, not every stereotype is negative. People on the autism spectrum are often said to be exceptionally honest. For this story, we are more than happy to embrace that particular stereotype.

The story below was written by a client who used our Virginity Service. He openly describes the period leading up to the booking, the meeting itself and the impact it had afterwards. His autism plays an important role in his experience, but it is certainly not the whole story. Ultimately, this blog is about something almost everyone can relate to: finding the courage to do something intimidating and discovering that reality is often much kinder than the fears we create in our minds.

A remarkable evening from an autistic perspective

"Like many others before me, I also made use of Society Service's Virgin Experience. Because of my autism, I often find it difficult to make the first move when it comes to meeting women. This is accompanied by a great deal of anxiety. As a result, I increasingly felt different from other people. I wanted to change that.

After a long search online, I came across Society Service. Looking back, I had read the website a little too quickly. I decided to call for some initial information. I still remember how nervous I was because I didn't really know what to ask. It was also the first time I spoke to someone from the Society Service team. However, the moment someone answered the phone, I completely froze. Despite that, they remained very professional and did everything they could to help me. My questions were answered and they advised me to read the website more carefully. That advice turned out to be incredibly valuable, but I'll come back to that later.

After reading the website more thoroughly, I decided to make a booking. That was a huge step for me. From the payment to my personal wishes, I could see a hundred obstacles ahead of me. Still, I decided to go through with it. After submitting everything, I was pleasantly surprised by how quickly I received an email from the Society Service team. I still remember reading it and thinking how grateful I was that they explained how my expectations differed from what I should realistically expect. That helped me realise I had been trying to appear far more confident than I actually was. After another short email exchange, we confirmed the booking and, thanks to the Society Service team, my expectations became much more realistic.

Looking back, one thing I had underestimated was the amount of time between making the booking and the actual appointment. Having to wait gave me plenty of opportunity to doubt whether I was making the right decision. To ease those doubts, I started reading some of the blogs written by the Society Service team. I was so glad I did because they answered many of the questions I had been struggling with. I would genuinely like to compliment the Society Service team on those blogs. What started with reading one article quickly turned into two, then four. Before I knew it, I had read every blog on the website, fascinated by how much I learned. If you struggle with personal insecurities, I can highly recommend reading them.

Eventually, the big day arrived. It was the first time I had ever booked a hotel as well as the first time I had used this kind of service. I was incredibly nervous on my way there. One question kept running through my mind: what if the escort doesn't show up? In the end, I managed to calm myself by remembering all the positive experiences I had read about in the blogs and trusting that everything would work out.

After a somewhat eventful train journey, I arrived at the hotel and carefully prepared everything. I made sure there was wine waiting, as mentioned in her profile, set out some cosy electric candles (because I obviously didn't want to burn the hotel down), and arranged some cheese and chocolate so I was certain there would be something the escort would enjoy.

After having something to eat in town, I kept an eye on the time so I could freshen up before the meeting. Once I was ready, I went down to the hotel lobby and waited on one of the sofas. Earlier, I had told the Society Service team what I would be wearing so the escort could recognise me easily. To my great relief, she arrived exactly on time. She walked straight over to me because she recognised my outfit, and together we headed up to the hotel room. Once again, the Society Service team had coordinated everything perfectly.

People say you only get one chance to make a first impression. I can honestly tell you that the escort absolutely succeeded. I was pleasantly surprised by the way she interacted with me. She was incredibly empathetic and warm. She seemed to understand exactly what kind of person I was and quickly made me feel at ease. It also became obvious that she had carefully read my booking information, which I really appreciated. It made our first conversation feel natural and familiar. On top of that, she was absolutely beautiful. The website says the escorts are often even more attractive in real life than in their photographs. I can assure you that this is absolutely true.

At one point, the escort suggested we go for a short walk because my hands were shaking quite badly. She sensed that simply holding my hand might help me relax. I was genuinely impressed because it worked almost immediately. After our walk, we returned to the hotel room together.

From there, the escort guided me towards intimacy step by step. The website clearly explains that nothing will happen that you are uncomfortable with, and I would like to confirm that from my own experience. She asked me every step of the way whether I felt comfortable with what was happening. Because we had already built such a genuine connection, every step felt like a natural continuation of the chemistry between us. I won't go into the intimate details of the rest of the booking, but I can honestly say that this part of the evening was just as enjoyable and comfortable.

Eventually, like all good things, the evening came to an end. After thoroughly enjoying the escort's company, it was time for her to leave. Before she left, we talked briefly about how we had both experienced the evening. It turned out that we had both enjoyed it very much and felt it was something worth repeating. I thought that was a wonderful way to end such a remarkable evening. In fact, I enjoyed it so much that I booked another appointment with the same escort. Getting to know her better, socially, intellectually and on a more intimate level, was an absolute pleasure. She has a truly sparkling personality.

The blogs written by the Society Service team inspired me to write down my own story, hoping it might also be shared with others. I hope that by writing this, I have shown that whether you have autism or not, you can simply be yourself. And that is perfectly okay.

If you are considering using the Virgin Experience, I can wholeheartedly recommend it. You can trust that you will be treated professionally throughout the entire process. Whether by telephone or email, the Society Service team communicates clearly and honestly, making sure you always know what to expect. That gave me a great deal of confidence, especially because I sometimes struggle to communicate myself. It is a quality I truly appreciate. With Society Service, you can expect clear, respectful and reassuring communication.

Finally, I would like to sincerely thank both the escort and the Society Service team once again for the wonderful experience and for the patience they showed me throughout the entire journey."