Mokum Magazine 2016/8

Mokum Magazine Amsterdam column High Class Escort

Mokum Magazine is the largest and free entertainment magazine of Amsterdam. With a circulation of 20.000 it's available on more than 1000 locations throughout all districts of Amsterdam and all cinema's. From April 2016, owner Marike is writing a monthly column in Mokum Magazine: The original article was published in Dutch but an English translation can be found below.

November 2016: Girlfriend Experience

Limousines, dinners in expensive restaurants, visiting exclusive nightclubs and overnight stays in five star hotels: For a high class escort it's day to day business. Marike van der Velden is owner of Society Service, the largest high class escortservice of The Netherlands. Together with high class escort Laura she offers a revealing glimpse into the premier league of seduction.

Even high class escort is a form of prostitution, and there are many forms. Escort, incall, brothels, sex clubs, massage parlors, but also the housewife that pays for help around the house 'au natural', it's all prostitution. With escort there's a difference between regular escort and high class escort. A regular escort offers a mostly sexual service. A high class escort is often booked when the client is looking for more than just sex, which we call the Girlfriend Experience. 

The Girlfriend Experience means that an escort will do with her client what she would do with her lover or boyfriend. In fact, her client should forget he's paying her for her company. An important part of this, is the connection that's made outside the bedroom. Believe it or not, for clients of an high class escortservice this is often more important than sex. The escort and client get to know each other while enjoying some drinks and something to eat. She listens to him, laughs when he makes a joke, secretly winks at him and takes an interest in him as a person. Something his wife perhaps has not done in years. The client will feel like like royal. At the right moment, when it feels right for both her as well as the client, she will make her 'move'. There's a slow build up to eroticism. Extensive kissing, also with tongue, cuddling, undressing each other, taking a bath together and long foreplay are all part of the standard repertoire of the Girlfriend Experience. Dressed in beautiful luxurious lingerie - think stockings and garter belts - the escort seduces her client and they make intense love. For just a moment they both forget the nature of the appointment, because yes, the escort is also enjoying the booking. But when I call them to let them know time is up, they both get back to reality...