Using your full real name with an escort booking

Do I have to provide my real name when booking an escort?

Yes. You really do. We have a duty of care towards our high class escorts, and a basic part of that is knowing whom we are introducing them to. Safety starts with clarity about identity. That is why you must provide your full real name when you book with us.

Your full real name is the name as it appears in your passport. It is not unusual to use a preferred name in daily life. You are of course welcome to share that, so that we and our escorts can address you accordingly. But when you place your booking with us, you always use your full real name. Our website’s booking form explicitly asks for your full real name, and that is the requirement.

Why is my real name necessary?

We work discreetly and with as little data as possible. At the same time, we are responsible for the safety and wellbeing of our escorts and for a smooth experience for you. Without your real name we cannot take that responsibility. This is not about curiosity, but about duty of care. We need to know who we are dealing with, just as you want to know who is behind our service.

A common objection is that you do not know the escort’s name in advance. That is correct. The difference is that you can verify us. There is a lot of public information about our owner Marike and about our company. You can check our details, reputation and way of working, and you can hold us to account. We are transparent about who we are and how we operate. In return we ask for honesty about who you are. For us, that is the basis of safety and trust.

What happens if I use a false name?

If you provide a false name, whether that is an alias, a shortened version of your real name or a variation of it, this will come to light during the first verification. We want to be clear about what that means to us. We explicitly ask for your full real name, and you choose to ignore that instruction. There are escort services that do not require a real name. You can book there if that suits you better. If you book with us anyway and use a false name, we conclude that you have little respect for our basic agreements. The chance is then high that you will not take other essential conditions seriously, such as those about consent and safe sex. In many cases we will therefore reject the request and you will not get another chance.

If we decide to give you a second chance, we will discuss the inconsistency with you and ask what is going on. If you respond indignantly or stick to the untruth, it is clear to us. You do not respect our conditions and we will refuse you definitively as a client. Our escorts deserve a working relationship with clients who follow instructions and take agreements seriously.

There are situations where someone apologises, explains that privacy concerns were the reason and acknowledges that this was an unwise choice. In that case, after an extra layer of checks, your request may sometimes still be processed. It does remain a poor first impression. Those who are honest from the start will notice how quickly and smoothly our process runs. You deserve an experience without fuss about basics we explain clearly in advance. That starts with your real name.

Is my privacy safeguarded when I book an escort?

We understand that discretion matters to you. For us it is just as self evident. We do not ask for more than necessary and we use data only to establish your identity and to organise your appointment safely and discreetly. We do not share anything with third parties without a legal basis and we do not keep data longer than necessary. Our way of working keeps the threshold low and the protection high. You can read the details in our privacy policy and in the explanation of our verification procedure.

Transparency and discretion go hand in hand

This subject deserves openness. Precisely because our service is professional and confidential, clear boundaries are needed. We are accountable for who we are and what we do. We ask that you follow the rules that safeguard safety and calm. Using your real name when booking and paying from your own bank account are part of that. These are small steps with a big impact. They protect our escorts, they protect you and they ensure the rest of the experience can focus on what truly matters.