Safe sex means more than using a condom
During your booking with one of our high class escorts or gigolos, only safe sex is possible. Because this does not mean the same for everyone, we explain more explicitly on this page what we mean by this. The most obvious is, of course, the use of condoms with any form of sexual contact. That is why our escorts always use a condom for vaginal and anal sex.
For oral sex on a penis, a condom is always used to protect the recipient and giver from any health risks. Things like "oral without, OWO" are therefore not possible with our escortservice. Neither are things such as come in mouth (CIM) and come in face (CIF). Not only because we comply with a legal obligation, but also because our escorts simply do not want to offer this. For oral sex on a vagina, the use of a dental dam is not required, provided that the recipient of oral sex is not menstruating at that time and has very good personal hygiene. Of course, it is possible to use a dental dam on request, but in accordance with the advice of the health department, this is not necessary to exclude health risks.
But just using a condom is not enough. One needs to know just as much about how to use a condom as about when to use a condom. Our escorts are trained in both aspects. The escort will provide all the means necessary to practice safe sex during the booking. Do you want to provide your own condoms or prefer a specific brand? You are welcome to provide these during a booking but make sure the packaging is still untouched.
It is a misconception that with a high class escort you run an increased risk of an STD compared to other persons who are sexually active. That's because our escorts are regularly tested and only practice safe sex. Unfortunately, we cannot answer your questions regarding the sexual health of the escort or gigolo. Medical information is confidential and a matter between the escorts and his or her physician. The escort is under no obligation to share this information with us or you. In fact, we aren’t even allowed to ask for this information as this information is protected under current privacy laws.
A little more about practicing safe sex aside from using condoms
Safe sex is when both parties involved feel safe, secure, comfortable and good about what’s happening. This is different for every person. Let’s take a look at three examples:
French kissing: Most of our escorts enjoy French kissing and see it as an important part of the Girlfriend Experience and Boyfriend Experience. When your teeth do not look clean, you smell like coffee and cigarettes, have a stain on your shirt, shabby nails and with an unmade bed, the slightest pimple near your mouth will be enough for the escort to not want to kiss you to avoid the risk of catching cold sores. It could be just a pimple, or a cut from shaving. But when taking the combination into consideration, your high class escort will not want to kiss you.
Dry humping: Rubbing your naked bodies onto each other can be very arousing and fun. That said, direct contact between genitals poses the same health risk as unprotected penetration. This unprotected penetration could also happen accidentally during dry humping. Therefore, put on a condom and enjoy this exciting moment without any risks.
Fingers everywhere: Touching and stimulating each other with fingers is sexy and hot. Your escort will have made sure all nails are freshly manicured, but did you do the same? The slightest hook on your nails can be enough to ruin both expensive stockings and hurt a vagina. Dirty fingers are even worse. Not washing your hands after going to the bathroom, switching between anal and vaginal contact without a wash and not using lube when needed may result in a bladder infection or fungal infection for the escort, making her feel very uncomfortable and unavailable to do bookings for at least a week. The escort will do whatever possible to prevent this and not let your fingers near if the escort has even the slightest idea you are not being hygienic and careful.
Menstruation: We ask both our high class escorts and clients not to schedule bookings when they have (heavier) menstruation. However, this remains a personal choice of each person, over which we have no control whatsoever. In addition, it is common for there to be some blood in the vagina, even outside menstruation, and unexpected bleeding can occur at any time. You may especially notice this when penetrative sex is harder or more intense, or when (accidentally) damage is caused to the vaginal wall with the fingers or nails. To protect against an STD, in addition to wearing a condom, it will be necessary to wash your hands regularly and oral sex on a vagina at times when there is visible blood loss is only possible with protection such as a dental dam.
The ultimate offense: When your escort tells you No, for whatever reason, this is not up for negotiation or discussion. Your escort will do his or her very best to please you and saying No to you is rather difficult for the escort as well. Please understand and be courteous. But whatever you do; do not offer extra money to do whatever the escort said No to anyway. This is the ultimate offense to your escort. There is pretty much nothing worse you could possibly do. It’s like saying: I do not care about your limits and preferences and assume your personal boundaries are up for sale. They are not. If you feel like offering your escort something extra, such as a tip or present, do so at the end of your pleasant time together because you’ve very much enjoyed the company. Not because you want something that the escort is not willing to provide for whatever reason. No means No.